Sexual relations are an important part of a healthy man's life. Sexual arousal in men can occur under the influence of various factors: a woman's appearance, erotic touches, memories of past intimacy. The sexual reaction of the stronger sex is a combination of physiological and emotional outbursts that, ultimately, should cause orgasm.
Signs of arousal in men
Sexual arousal is the human body's response to sexual stimulation. Its strength and duration depend on hormonal levels, well-being and anthropological characteristics (height, hair color).
The desire that arises in its manifestations resembles stress:
- the rate of breathing and heartbeat increases;
- pupils dilate;
- voice and behavior changes;
- blood pressure increases;
- muscle tension occurs;
- goosebumps appear on the skin;
- salivation increases.
Excitation process:
- In men, the main sign of sexual desire is penile erection. Blood flow increases the length and diameter of the organ several times. Length increase is an individual indicator; a small penis enlarges more during an erection. He straightens and gets hard. The changes that occur contribute to the insertion of the penis into the vagina.
- With the transition to intimacy, the man's excitement increases and with it all the body's reactions. Heart rate, blood pressure and muscle tension increase. The rhythmic friction of the penis against the vaginal walls is a powerful irritant.
- To prolong sexual intercourse, it is recommended to temporarily stop rubbing to reduce tension. Discharge appears on the erect penis, which is not something to be afraid of. This is a pre-seminal fluid that plays an important role in conception.
- Orgasm is the height of pleasure; It is the shortest moment of the sexual response, lasting just a few seconds. It is accompanied by the eruption of semen. In men, the muscles of the body contract, various sounds may escape involuntarily, and a feeling of euphoria appears.
- The release of semen occurs due to the rhythmic contractions of smooth muscles. Start with small portions, gradually increasing the volume of sperm. After the first tremors, nothing will stop the man from completing ejaculation. Each ejection is accompanied by sexual pleasure, especially in the region of the head and body of the penis.
- After orgasm, the body returns to its normal state. The muscles relax, blood leaves the penis and the organ decreases in size. A refractory period begins, during which the man does not become excited even with physical impact on the penis.
- The refraction phase is the time that the stronger sex needs to recover before a new erection. It has no specific duration and can vary from several minutes to hours. With age, this gap increases. The angle of elevation of the penis in most cases reaches 60-90 degrees. The maximum peak occurs at age 20 and, after age 50, the angle decreases significantly.
Discharge in men when excited
Clear viscous secretion from an erect penis is a normal physiological process. Lubrication in men during arousal occurs with the help of pre-ejaculation. This sticky, colorless liquid is released from the urethra in preparation for sexual intercourse or during masturbation.
The source of lubrication is the Cooper glands. Their secretions contain many enzymes and mucus.
A transparent secret performs several functions:
- isolates residual urine in the urethra;
- partially neutralizes the acidic environment of the vagina;
- lubricates the urethra for the passage of sperm;
- The secretion promotes pain-free sexual intercourse.
The amount of lubrication varies significantly between men. It can vary from a few drops to 5 ml or more. The main purpose of pre-ejaculation is to prepare a favorable environment for sperm. Pre-seminal fluid neutralizes the acidity of the vagina, increasing sperm survival and the chances of conceiving a child.
For partners who prefer to interrupt coitus for contraception, the question arises about the likelihood of getting pregnant if the lubricant gets on them. Studies on the composition of pre-ejaculation have shown that it does not contain seeds. But with repeated sexual intercourse, the residual seminal fluid preserved in the urethra enters the secretion.
Lack or excess lubrication in men does not affect their sexual relations. Any manifestation is individual, there are no rigid models that you need to fit into. Enjoy intimacy without fear or prejudice.
One type of "lubrication" of the head of the penis is smegma. These discharges are not related to sexual arousal. A white, fatty substance facilitates movement of the head of the penis as it emerges from the foreskin. But a large accumulation of smegma causes inflammation of the penis skin and other problems. To prevent this from happening, it is necessary to wash the smegma daily.
How to turn a man on
A man's sexual desire depends on many factors. If during his youth he is excited by the mere thought of intimacy, then with age this becomes insufficient.
To increase her partner's libido, the woman will need specific releasers or stimuli. It is in a man's nature to evaluate visually, so take attractive poses to turn a man on, wear seductive lingerie, let your hair down. The sight of naked female organs and the partner's signs of desire also contribute to the emergence of a reciprocal impulse.
Various stimuli help to cause excitement in the stronger sex:
- auditory;
- visual;
- olfactory;
- tactile;
- erotic fantasies, films and much more.
You need to approach the awakening of sexual desire in a man individually.
- To do this, it is worth studying your habits and preferences in music, food, aromas, etc. Aphrodisiacs help increase desire, they can be spices, foods, drinks, aromatic oils.
- Among the recognized pathogens of sexual activity: nuts, seafood, grape wine, herbs, herbs, fruits.
- The aroma of patchouli oil increases sensuality and testosterone production. Young people will appreciate the aroma of tangerine, verbena or cedar oil; a mature partner will appreciate juniper or sandalwood.
- Before preparing a romantic evening with an aroma lamp, you need to find out if your chosen one is allergic to the prepared aphrodisiac.
- For some men, words can be a powerful stimulant. Certain phrases, from veiled suggestions of intimacy to outright lust, evoke sexual activity in partners. Frankness is appropriate when communicating with a known object of passion, and any man will enjoy talking about sexuality or complimenting appearance.
- Touching at varying intensities is a direct path to arousing a partner. Monotony harms sexual activity, to attract the desired man the woman will have to resort to experiments.
- You can start with a relaxing massage, gradually covering several erogenous zones and points. Touching breasts and nipples excites both the stronger sex and women. Give your partner the full range of sensations, from gentle caresses and kisses to biting.
- Do not skip the back and buttocks - here a light massage can end with sensitive stroking of the nails.
- The inner thighs are another source of pleasure for men; Soft or hard touches are chosen by the partners themselves. For caresses, you need to use not only your hands and lips, but your entire body. The man's stomach is one of the most erogenous zones. Exploring your language will be a real pleasure. The partner's proximity to the penis, languor and anticipation will quickly lead to an erection.
- The penis is an erogenous zone for every man; your stimulation will certainly lead to the height of happiness. The most sensitive and delicate part of the organ is the head. Touch and stimulation with the tongue will make your partner forget about everything in the world. Having studied the most sensitive points of a man, you can give him real pleasure.
Stimulant drugs
Why do men experience decreased sexual activity? There can be many answers to this question: stress, past illnesses, age, fatigue and other reasons.
Pills for men to stimulate sexual desire will perfectly solve the problem:
- The leaders among stimulant drugs are those containing sildenafil. The pills, originally created to treat heart problems, have become a powerful and fast stimulant.
- Medicines containing tadalafil improve erections. The medications do not affect the functioning of the heart and liver and also do not alter the composition of sperm.
Consequences of arousal without release
Sexual excitement does not always end with sexual intercourse. The body, prepared for release through orgasm, remains in a state of overexcitement. If such situations are of a unique nature, there is nothing to fear: they do not threaten health and potency.
What a man feels when he is aroused without release:
- discomfort or pain in the testicles, slight swelling;
- discomfort in the penis;
- tingling in the back of the neck;
- lower abdominal pain.
Of these symptoms, pain in the testicles deserves special attention. This organ is important for human health. It is responsible for the production of testosterone and sperm. If the genitals are healthy, the discomfort will disappear after 4 hours.
Pain in the testicles can be a sign of illness. If the size and density have changed or the pain has become sharp and intense, you need to see a doctor.
Sexual desire is an important part of a person's sex life. When a man is excited, it is best to use several methods, alternating their sequence. This will give amazing results.